When a guy has a healthy sense of self-esteem, he knows that he is worth anybody else's time, and ultimately, that is the key to approach women with ease.
San Mateo, CA (PRWEB) April 14, 2013
Sometimes that very first step is the most difficult one and that is why it is important for men to learn how to overcome approach anxiety, says Dating Expert Carlos Xuma in his new report on how to approach women with ease.
“It seems that even the most confident man sometimes freezes when it comes time to walk up to a beautiful woman and do something as simple as say hello,” Xuma says in his new report. “That can be a major roadblock for many men who sit there trying to steel themselves up, get enough nerve to walk up to a woman and by the time they do she is already talking to another guy.”
Xuma says there are some definite tried and true tips and techniques that can make it easy for men to learn how to approach women with ease.
“A lot of dating skills are behaviors that can be taught and learned,” he says in his new report. “In the dating world, a little bit of information can go a long way and in fact, be dangerous. That is why so much time is spent teaching men these simple tricks that can completely abolish any fear they have about approaching women.”
The irony, Xuma explains in his report, is that oftentimes the women are equally or even more nervous than the men.
“There is so much misunderstanding in the dating world,” Xuma says. “Guys are nervous and have to get up their nerve to approach women and meanwhile, a girl is a nervous wreck waiting for a guy to walk up to her. Too many people put others on a pedestal; understanding that nobody is better than anybody else is half the battle.
“The reason people do this boils down to a lack of self-esteem,” he explains. “One reason the report focuses on increasing self-confidence is that a person with a healthy – not extreme – ego, knows that he or she has something valuable to offer another person.”
When a guy has a healthy sense of self-esteem, he can approach women with ease because he knows that he is a valuable, unique person worthy of anyone else’s time, Xuma says.
“And ultimately, that is the key to success,” Xuma says. “The report explains this, but also includes techniques to make approaching women easy.”
Carlos Xuma has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio. Xuma has also been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years and is the author of numerous articles and books, including The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program. He has spent years teaching hundreds of men important dating skills, such as how to flirt with girls, how to pick up women, and dating tips for guys.
For more information, visit Carlos Xuma's website at http://www.carlosxuma.com.