Learning how to talk to women boils down to having a healthy dose of self-confidence in every interaction.
San Mateo, CA (PRWEB) April 28, 2013
According to Dating Expert Carlos Xuma in his new report, there are a few key things that all men need to know about how to talk to women that have nothing to do with sweet talk.
“Most men think learning what to say to a woman involves figuring out how to compliment them, or even baby-talk them, or other really off the mark ideas of what talking to women is all about,” Xuma says.
What does work, says the report on how to talk to a woman, are a few really simple, basic strategies.
“One of the most effective ways to talk to a woman is to approach talking to her like talking to a best friend’s little sister,” he says. “The reason this technique works so very well is that when a guy talks to his friend’s little sister, he is usually coming at it from a point of nonchalance, confidence, and casualness. Those three qualities are huge when it comes to interacting with women.”
That and very few men put someone’s little sister up on a pedestal - which is another reason this technique works, Xuma says.
“By imagining that an amazing looking girl is just a kid sister, it takes away all fear of striking up a conversation,” Xuma says. “And the other element that is super important in learning how to talk to women is the ability to tease. Most guys know how to tease someone’s little sister naturally, so this is a given.”
Talking to a woman as if she were someone’s kid sister is just one of the many techniques that Xuma shares in his new report on how to talk to women.
“That’s just the first tip shared in the report, but it covers all sorts of areas,” he says. “Learning how to talk to women really boils down to having a healthy dose of self-confidence in every interaction. That is hands down the one, most important thing that any guy can work on and strive for in his conversations with women. Coming to the table from a place of confidence will conquer nearly every other obstacle in a guy’s path.”
Xuma teaches men that the way to self-confidence might take a little bit of time, but will pay off unbelievably and for a lifetime.
“Over and over again, women say the most attractive trait in a man is self- confidence,” Xuma says. “Any guy who can bring this to a conversation is going to stand head and shoulders above every other guy out there.”
Carlos Xuma has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years, and has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio. He is the author of numerous articles and books, including The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, and the Girlfriend Training Program. Xuma has spent years teaching hundreds of men important dating skills, such as how to flirt with girls, how to seduce a woman, and how to talk to women. He has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years.
For more information, visit Carlos Xuma's website at http://www.win-with-women.com.