most divorces start from a place of conflict.
(PRWEB) January 22, 2014
Online divorce service MyDivorcePapers.com (MDP) works with many couples, who decide to file for divorce together, essentially. Rather than struggle with the cost and conflict of combative divorce, these couples approach their split as if it is a business deal. In that spirit, MDP has compiled a new tip sheet for how to divorce amicably by keeping things businesslike. Here are their business tips:
One: Focus On Objectives.
MDP acknowledges that most divorces start from a place of conflict. "However," says a representative, "if you can put what divides you out-of-mind and focus on shared objectives, you're well on your way to a do-it-yourself divorce that works."
Once couples realize that divorce is the answer, the rep continued, they need to be forward-thinking and progressive. "How do we get from where we are to where we want to be? That needs to be the question that drives the conversation."
Two: Move Quickly.
Even the most well-meaning of couples can turn on one another if their objectives don't stay focused, MDP claims. "The longer it takes to get your divorce papers finalized, the more likely things will arise that make an amicable split impossible."
Such "things," according to the rep, include: dating before the divorce is final, listening to well-meaning "advice" from friends and family, and allowing an attorney to distract from the shared objective of an amicable split.
Three: Eliminate Naivety.
MDP urges couples to find the balance between cooperation and playing it safe. "Naivety can be a deathblow to a successful divorce," the rep stated. "One couple I know were so sure that they were cut out for the DIY path to divorce that they refused to split financials and tried to move on with their dating and relationships before anything was final. They ended up 'lawyering up' because they allowed their naivety to set unrealistic expectations that they then proceeded to fall short of."
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