(PRWEB) June 10, 2014
MyDivorcePapers.com (MDP) works with numerous clients, who are concerned about future relationships as a result of their decision to file for divorce. They’ve long heard the adage that second marriages are twice as likely to fail, and that panics many of them. However, the company in pointing to its own statistics shows that second marriage divorces aren’t quite as likely as many people think.
In fact, when going through the numbers of a recent in-house study, MDP found that the vast majority of divorce papers that are submitted through the service are done so by first-time divorcees. To be exact, 74.5 percent of the cases (2,466 couples) were from first-time marriages. Only 18 percent (602) filing couples were leaving second-time marriages.
To help ease the mind of their clients, the company has put together this quick tip sheet on how to break the supposed “second marriage curse.” Here’s what they recommend.
First: Realize There Isn’t A Curse.
MDP notes that statistics are looking upon second marriages much more favorably today than in the past. “Most of the time, couples are working from data they heard or read about several years ago,” a rep explains. “Today, we know, from our own research, that first marriages are no ‘safer’ than second marriages. In fact, they are much less so.”
The company advises clients that it’s time to stop focusing so hard on statistics and instead look to other more beneficial causes.
Then: Work On Self Improvement.
According to MDP, the best way to have a successful second marriage is to know yourself and be comfortable in your own skin before attempting a serious relationship following the divorce.
“If you’re happy with you, then someone else is much more likely to be,” said the representative. “Don’t worry so much about finding someone new, especially when the wound of divorce is still fresh. Instead be the man or woman you always wanted to be, and you’ll find yourself in a much better position to be the one someone else is looking for.”
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