I talked to a lot of people who don’t suspect their spouses are cheating on them but now fear it could happen in the future. I think it has a lot to do with our culture that increasingly glorifies affairs as fun and adventurous.
Newton, MA (PRWEB) March 05, 2012
Alba, who counsels women on how to deal with marriage infidelity, has found that there’s a new growing fear among men and women that their spouse’s may have or could cheat on them.
“I talked to a lot of people who don’t suspect their spouses are cheating on them but now fear it could happen in the future. I’ve never seen irrational fear like this in the past; I think it has a lot to do with our culture that increasingly glorifies affairs as fun and adventurous.”
Alba mentioned services like AshelyMadison.com, a service for people who want to have an affair. Also, a quick google search for “how to have an affair” reveals countless resources and guides on how to have an affair without getting caught.
Alba understands all too well the anxiety that people face over dealing with a cheating spouse. Her last partner cheated on her 3 times and eventually fled the country with his 3rd lover. Alba was left with $300,000 in debt that her ex had racked up. She was left financially crippled, with 6 kids to support and no child support.
So what’s Alba solution to the increased fear and anxiety about cheating and infidelity? She says people need to be educated about the reality of infidelity: most spouses’ are loyal. Cheating is relatively rare.
Even if you believe the often-quoted figure that 22% of men and 14% women have cheated at least once in their lifetime that still means that 78%-86% are spouses that do not cheat.
There is one caveat: if you suspect your spouse is cheating on you, then you must act fast to uncover the truth. A cheating spouse can not only destroy your marriage, but can also be financially devastating, especially if you don’t take action immediately. How to Catch Your Cheating Spouse reveals soundproof ways to catch a cheating spouse.
Alba Alvarez is the author of How to Catch Your Cheating Spouse, a comprehensive guide on how to get ironclad proof if your spouse is cheating and how to rebuild your life in the aftermath. Alba is proud to say that she has successfully rebuilt her life, and she’s happily married today to her husband Jim.
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