Hoboken, NJ (PRWEB) November 26, 2012
Dating advice author Bobby Rio and dating expert Rob Judge have recently released a series of videos that are aimed at helping guys use texting as a tool for flirting with girls and setting up dates. The videos, available through TSB Magazine's YouTube channel, have been released in conjunction with Rio and Judge's Magnetic Messaging program, which provides in depth instruction in the art of communicating effectively with women using text messages.
In these videos, Judge and Rio discuss what they say are the most-common pitfalls for guys who try to text a women that they have just met. The two dating coaches then proceed to give advice about how guys can overcome these pitfalls and actually use texting as a tool that can make it easier for them to set up dates and build attraction.
In the first video, When to Text a Girl, Judge argues that most guys actually start with the wrong mindset when planning to text or call a girl whose phone number that they have just obtained. “A lot of guys get fixated on how long they should wait. 'Should I wait a day? Three days? Should I pretend I'm not interested?'” What is important, according to Judge, is what the text says: “The content of the text is so much more important than the timing...and most guys completely ignore this.”
After challenging the timing “myth,” the two experts follow up with a second video, entitled How to Start a Text Conversation. Rio advises viewers that a text conversation should not be approached in the same way as a face-to-face conversation, but instead should be approached in a way that sparks the girl's interest. Judge and Rio go on to provide viewers with a number of ideas for initial texts that they say can spark a women's interest and earn a quick (and usually positive) response. Most guys don't know what to text a girl: http://www.tsbmag.com/2009/06/11/what-do-you-text-message-girls/
In the final installment of this series, How to Ask a Girl Out Over Text Message, Rio and Judge offer advice about asking for a date via text. They again contend that there is a myth, that a guy must ask a girl out on a formal date, that causes many guys to stumble and set themselves up for failure. Judge advocates a more-casual approach to asking for a date, and Rio explains that a laid-back approach and asking for a “meet-up” on the spur of the moment lessens the chances of rejection and opens up the possibility for future dates even if the girl declines this first text invitation. The two experts then go on to give several more ideas about setting up a meeting or date with a woman via text message.
Both Rio and Judge offer more dating advice in their columns on the TSB Magazine website. Rio has also published a number of dating ebooks, which are available on Amazon.com.
Here are more of their videos on texting girls: http://www.textingsecrets.com/videos-about-how-to-text-girls/