San Mateo, CA (PRWEB) March 29, 2012
Dating Expert Carlos Xuma says that pick up artists get a bad rap. Some of them deserve it, too. But the reality is that the pick up artist is really a guy who is experienced in proven techniques that attract women. He knows what works and what doesn’t, Xuma says in his new report.
However, any man can learn these pick up artist techniques and strategies and actually become even more effective than the seasoned pick up artists, Xuma says in his new report.
“Rather than just teach men to imitate the behaviors of pick up artists in the hopes that they can emulate him, this report shows men how to become the type of personality that can attract women naturally,” Xuma says. “Instead of acting, he will be the real thing. He won’t have to be sneaky, manipulate, or memorize witty things to say. He will just naturally be able to attract women.”
One important concept that Xuma shares in his report is that learning to attract women is not a matter of putting on a pick up artist persona and then taking it off again when the man gets home.
“Men who are successful in learning effective pick up artist techniques know that they need to make their skills and abilities part of their personality,” Xuma says. “Otherwise, if a man just puts on this personality as if he is wearing a cloak he can later take off, then he is essentially harming his self confidence.”
Xuma explains further in his report on pick up artist techniques by saying that when men adopt an identity only when they think they “need” it, they are damaging their self-esteem.
“Men who do this are telling their subconscious that they are putting on an act, that it is not really them and that they are really not like that,” Xuma explains. “That means a guy is programming his subconscious to believe that he has to put on this alter ego because he is not naturally attractive to women.”
The true pick up artist doesn’t put on an act, Xuma says.
“He knows he’s a pick up artist all day long, all week long, all year long,” Xuma says in his report. “It’s not a role he plays. It is who he is.”
These are just a few of the ideas Xuma reveals in his new report on pick up artist techniques.
Xuma has spent years teaching hundreds of men flirting tips for guys and has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years. He has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio. He’s the author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program, and numerous other books and articles. He has also been recognized for his work sharing dating advice for guys and sharing tips on pick up artist technique.
For more information, visit Carlos Xuma’s website at http://www.datingdynamics.com