San Mateo, CA (PRWEB) January 17, 2012
It’s not so much knowing what to text a woman, as knowing how to text a woman, Carlos Xuma says in a recent report.
In his new report, Xuma tells men some basic rules they need to follow if they want to build attraction through texting.
Here’s the first rule and tip Xuma shares in his report: Men should learn how to seduce women with text messages, but save that knowledge until they have already becoming intimate.
“When a guy first meets a girl, all of the seduction needs to take place in person,” Xuma says. “So, in the very beginning the only point and the only goal of texting is to arrange that in person meeting.”
But once an intimate relationship has begun, men can learn how to seduce women with text messages by planting seeds in the woman’s head hours before she sees the man, Xuma says.
“The best seduction technique is for a guy to get the girl to start thinking about him in a sexy way hours before they have plans to see one another,” he says. “Sometimes the anticipation is what makes the experience — once it does happen — that much richer and satisfying.”
Men can plant little seeds of attraction early in the day by texting something such as telling the woman how hot she makes him and how he can’t wait to show her how he feels in person.
It’s the same technique men can use in person. For instance, a man might walk up to his girlfriend, give her a long, sensuous kiss on his way out the door to work, telling her that he can’t wait to see her tonight and finish what he started.
“That same tips for texting can be used,” Xuma says in his report on how to seduce women with text messages. “It is all about building attraction and anticipation of what is to come later on. It also helps for men to tell women that they find her attractive and can’t stop thinking about her. Most women like to hear that and that also sparks attraction.”
Xuma has spent years teaching hundreds of men flirting tips for guys and has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years. He has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio. He’s the author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program, and numerous other books and articles. He has also been recognized for his work sharing dating advice for guys and helps them learn how to seduce women with text messages.
For more information, visit Carlos Xuma’s website at http://www.carlosxuma.com