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In the newly released book by J.J. Smith titled, Why I Love Men: The Joys of Dating, J.J. writes a chapter called: “Men Cheat on Women They Love” which sheds light on Tiger’s cheating incident.

Why I Love Men: The Joys of Dating

I think monogamy is unnatural for men.

In her newly released book, Why I Love Men: The Joys of Dating, J.J. Smith explains why she feels many men, especially the wealthy and successful men, cheat. In the chapter titled, Men Cheat on Women They Love, Smith explains why she thinks men cheat in this excerpt from her book:

“I think monogamy is unnatural for men. Men like sexual variety. A man’s natural tendency is to want and desire new sexual partners. Men will lust after other women even when they’re perfectly happy and fulfilled in a relationship with the woman they love. Cheating does not necessarily indicate any dissatisfaction in his relationship with you. That’s why we wonder why a man can cheat on a beautiful woman with a less attractive woman. But for the man, it’s just about variety and wanting something different. I do not condone cheating, but I do realize that cheating does not necessarily indicate any dissatisfaction in his relationship with his woman.

"I believe that a man can make a spiritual commitment to one woman and be monogamous and committed to her. However, even when men marry and make a vow of loyalty and faithfulness (“until death do us part”), they may cheat anyway. The primary thing that stops them from cheating is fear of losing the woman they love or no real good opportunities to cheat have arisen. However, if they were sure they could get away with it and their wife or girlfriend would never know, most men would have sex with other women. In those periods during a relationship when a man is monogamous, he still may satisfy his need for variety through porn and strip club hopping.

"Many men think about other women all the time but it may have no reflection on how attractive he finds you. Men often cheat because they lack self-control or the discipline to resist sex with someone different. Women often have sex for an emotional connection and men can too. But many times with men, it is not about intimacy or love; sex is just about sex.”

You can get this new book, Why I Love Men: The Joys of Dating on Amazon, Barnes and Nobles, and on J.J. Smith’s website at http://www.jjsmithonline.com.

J.J. Smith’s dating and relationship expertise is in high demand as she has recently appeared on NBC, FOX, NewsChannel8, Glamour Magazine, Jamie Foxx Show, the Michael Baisden Show, Montel Williams: Montel Across America, and many other shows.

J.J. Smith’s dating advice for women comes not only from trial and error, or growing up with all brothers, but from the many hours she spends with “The Fellas.” J.J. Smith is the host of Real Talk with JJ and The Fellas which features J.J. Smith and four fellas who are single, engaged, married and divorced. The Fellas and their witty, humorous and truth-telling styles have captured thousands of fans and listeners in just 3 short months. They are also regular guests on the Fox5 Morning News in DC and are quickly becoming the source for women looking for advice and real answers on love, dating, sex and relationships. JJ and The Fellas’ no-holds barred dating and relationship talk offers sometimes controversial advice, but still has been grabbing listeners, both men and women alike, and keeping them coming back for more! Fan favorite shows have been:

  • “Sex on the First Date vs. the 90 Day Rule”
  • “What Makes a Man Decide to Commit to One Woman”
  • “What Men Expect From Sex: The What, When and Where of Sexual Encounters”
  • Dating Etiquette: Is Courtship Dead?
  • Can a Man Love and Maintain a Relationship with Two Women?

For more information on the radio show and to listen to podcasts from Real Talk with JJ and The Fellas, Click here:
http://www.jjsmithonline.com/jjsmith-radioshow.htm

You can hear Real Talk with JJ and The Fellas every 2nd and 4th Wednesday from 9-10pm EST on wsRadio.com, the world’s largest internet radio station. This week’s topic (12/9/09) is Cheetah Woods: The Tiger Woods Scandal.

J.J. Smith’s Why I Love Men: The Joys of Dating offers an honest and sometimes shocking look at love, dating and sex. “Women want to be happy in their relationships, but many of us don’t know how” says J.J. “The rules of dating have changed, and many of us just don’t know what to do. If you think about it, most of us have never been taught how to date to find a compatible partner. There was no college course for it. Lots of women fly by the seat of their pants, get bad advice from friends, and waste valuable time with unavailable men. To be successful dating today, there are new strategies that have worked for numerous other women and they can work for you.”

You can get this new book, Why I Love Men: The Joys of Dating on Amazon, Barnes and Nobles, and on J.J. Smith’s website at http://www.jjsmithonline.com.

About J.J. Smith
J.J. Smith is a Dating and Relationship Expert, Author, Radio Host, Life Coach and Corporate Executive. J.J. is also the host of "Real Talk with JJ and The Fellas," a radio show that provides advice to single women looking for real answers on love, dating, sex and relationships. J.J has appeared on NBC, FOX, NewsChannel8, Glamour Magazine, Ladies Home Journal. the Jamie Foxx Show, Montel Williams Show, Michael Baisden Show, HOT97, KISS 98.7 and many others.

J.J. holds a B.A. in Mathematics from Hampton University and continued her education by completing The Wharton Business School Executive Management certificate program. J.J. currently serves as Vice President and Partner in an IT Consulting firm in the DC Metro area. J.J. Smith’s mission is to help women of all ages upgrade the quality of their personal relationships with men!

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