The greater your proficiency [at dancing] the greater in demand as a dancing partner you will become. In fact the better a man dances the more attractive he becomes.
Rochester, NY (PRWEB) February 8, 2006
If you think dancing is not for “real men”; think again. It is a fact that women at clubs from New York City to San Francisco are much more attracted to men who are smooth on the dance floor. This is evidenced by advice on attracting women provided on the popular men’s website: http://www.becomeaplayer.com: “Simply begin to dance and they will come to you.” Within the San Francisco based website, http://www.salsacrazy.com, dancing is referred to as the “Great Equalizer”.
They explain that a man does not need to be handsome, have a fancy car or be a CEO to attract the women; they simply need to know how to dance. “The greater your proficiency [at dancing] the greater in demand as a dancing partner you will become. In fact the better a man dances the more attractive he becomes.”
This is a phenomenon occurring in clubs everywhere. We have all seen the guy who has women lined up waiting for a chance to dance with him. When an average-looking young man, Michael, seen at a popular club in this enviable position was asked: “Why do you think all these women are waiting to dance with you?” He explained that he was a dance instructor and went on to admit with a wide grin: “I know how to lead the ladies, I can make them look good and have a great time on the floor, so I get to dance with the hottest babe’s in the club. I never have to ask them to dance, they ask me. My buddies are jealous because I get all the babes."
If you are tired of watching the Michael’s of the world get all of the attention, don’t just sit back, take a few dance lessons and enjoy being noticed. You do not have to be an expert dancer to attract the ladies; you just need enough confidence to lead a few simple steps. Once you have mastered some steps, and have established a bit of styling, it will be your turn to be in demand on the dance floor.
But before stepping into those dance shoes, it is important to know the basics of dance etiquette even if you are just “Clubbing it”. A simple understanding of the “Do’s and Don’ts” on the dance floor can make the difference between being considered a pig verses a gentleman. If you log onto http://www.bestballroomshoes.com you can read up on dance etiquette, get some tips on dancing on the many different types of floors you will encounter, and learn about dance shoes that will help you master the art.