How To Attract Women Without Looking Like a Jerk: Dating Guru's New Bulletin Points to the Pitfalls and Keys

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Dating and relationship expert Carlos Xuma explains that maintaining charm, confidence, and sense of control go hand-in-hand in the attraction arena in his new report.

Carlos Xuma - How to Attract Women

Carlos Xuma Reveals How to Attract Women

Men who want to learn how to attract women can easily sweep onto the playing field and be masters of it because a guy who walks out there and knows he is in charge will be victorious.

In the quest to find a mate, or even a date, men can get downtrodden, depressed, angry, and mopey. It all boils down to a perception of who holds the power. Many men get resentful that the power to date or not to date appears to lie primarily in a woman’s hands, but that just isn’t so, says Dating Expert Carlos Xuma in his new report.

“It is flat out not true that women hold the power in the dating arena,” Xuma says. “But men are under the misconception that they are weak and powerless when it comes to making dating decisions and because of that they immediately forfeit any and all ability or skills for how attract women. And they end up looking like childish jerks.”

The truth is, Xuma says, men hold just as much power as women. The proof is in talking to women. Xuma spent years not only learning how to attract women successfully, but also in figuring out just what women want and where they are coming from.

“Women have told me over and over that in their eyes it seems like men have all the power in the dating world,” Xuma says. “So if guys think women hold all the power and women think guys hold all the power, then just who does hold those reins?”

According to Xuma, the answer is obvious: the person who holds the most power is the one who has studied attraction and who has the most confidence.

“Men who want to learn how to attract women can easily sweep onto the playing field and be masters of it because there truly is so much confusion about who is in charge,” says Xuma. “A guy who walks out there and knows he is in charge will be victorious in the dating world.”

That is one reason Xuma focuses so strongly on teaching men alpha male traits.

“The reason adopting alpha male traits is so important is because it helps men easily distinguish the characteristics of a man in charge, gives him the tools in order to be proficient at how to attract women, and separates those traits from the man who is just a jerk,” Xuma says. “That can be a fine line, but with a little bit of information, a guy can avoid the jerk status and reap in the benefits of the alpha male who is ruling the group and going home with all the women.”

Carlos Xuma is the author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program, and numerous other books and articles. He has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years and has spent years teaching hundreds of men important dating skills, such as how to flirt with girls, how to pick up women, and how to attract women. Xuma has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio.

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