...poor communication may be the cause of the divorce in the first place.
(PRWEB) December 13, 2013
Online divorce site MyDivorcePapers.com (MDP) conducts divorce research and shares advice with people experiencing a marriage breakup. Working with countless individuals, the service has spotted a trend in couples who wish to handle things on their own, but are uncertain of how to manage their relationship through the filing process. Here’s what the company recommends:
Tip One: Communication Is Key.
MDP acknowledges that it may be difficult to improve the bonds of communication long enough for a clean break, especially since poor communication may be the cause of the divorce in the first place. However, it is essential, says a representative from the company. “In a do-it-yourself divorce, communication must be better than it’s ever been to avoid conflict. It’s important that you both agree with the general idea that you want divorce to be as painless as possible so you can both get on with your lives.”
Tip Two: Keep A Disagreement Inventory.
The company also acknowledges that people who decide to file for divorce are going to have conflict. However, it’s not the existence of the conflict that matters, but how it is handled. “Many couples have gone to creating a disagreement inventory,” the rep explains. “Whenever things get hot under the collar, they make note of them and instead of resolving at once to file, they see if they can’t work those issues out under mediation.”
Tip Three: Look To The Future, Not The Present Or Past.
As the company notes, it is rather difficult to get on with one’s life when the focus is on the conflict and circumstances that led to the divorce. “Instead, you should keep your eyes focused on the future. Remember that you’re getting divorced because you want something better for your life. Focus on how that ‘something better’ looks instead of stewing in bitterness and anger.”
MyDivorcePapers.com is an acclaimed forms service for individuals and couples, who wish to spend as little time in an attorney’s office as possible. Serving all 50 states, the individualized divorce forms come with a 100% money-back guarantee of court approval. Customer service specialists complete all forms for the client, after which the forms are available through downloading or direct shipping.
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