Los Angeles California (PRWEB) August 24, 2013
Dating a millionaire is no longer such a novel idea. It sounds so great when we hear that Cinderella finally marries her prince. No matter how successful the story, one thing that we cannot ignore is that the psychological distance does work between non-millionaires and millionaires in dating. This article will expound how the psychological distance works and provide some advice for you to date a millionaire.
The classical loving words still touched our hearts even if it has been more than 150 years since the publication of Jane Eyre.
“Do you think, because I am poor, obscure, plain and little, I am soulless and heartless? You think wrong! - I have as much soul as you, - and full as much heart! And if God had gifted me with some beauty and much wealth, I should have made it as hard for you to leave me, as it is now for me to leave you!”
― Charlotte Brontë, Jane Eyre
We can obviously observe that Jane stressed the spiritual equality between her and Edward Rochester when they fell in love. But why she said that? She is neither rich nor pretty, while Edward Rochester is a single millionaire who is perfect for dating in modern words. The disparity of wealth is the main cause of the psychological distance between them. Mr. Rochester never thought Jane was ugly and poor, but Jane herself and other people did. This psychological distance is more like a barrier that the non-millionaire part feels humble and unequal. While that feeling is hard to be understood by the millionaire part. So spiritual equality should be considered if you want to date a millionaire either on a millionaire dating site like MillionaireMatch.com or in real life.
There is another kind of psychological distance that happens when a non-millionaire dates a millionaire. This kind of psychological distance makes the "common" person feel flattered, happy and pressured at the same time. It works like a gate where He or she stands on the two sides. You have to walk through the gate before starting the relationship.This theory is proven very well in 2 Broken Girls. When Candy Andy (Caroline’s boy friend) first saw Caroline. He was deeply attracted by her. But when he heard from Max that the girl he liked was Caroline Channing, he was astonished. A psychological distance worked on their first dating in a bar. He acted like a puppet which made Caroline feel he was such a boring man. Here we may feel the same with Andy if a famous, dignified and charming lady or man dates with us. After Andy saw Caroline’s sexy and crazy dance, he walked through that gate and kissed her as he kissed an ordinary girl. So remember to simply regard him or her as any other average person when you date single millionaires.
Other Psychological distance occur due to different backgrounds, interests, education, various perspectives towards vital things etc. Whatever happens, most millionaires are always more accustomed to being controllers. It is the non-millionaires who mostly make concessions. So learn how to be tolerated before you decide to date a millionaire.
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