Pickup Metrics Interviews 21 Female Dating Experts and 31 Pickup Artists

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PickupMetrics.com releases two group interviews where 21 female dating experts name the 8 biggest attraction killers and 31 pickup artists reveal how to pick up girls in 7 situations.

Pickup Metrics is a controversial new site that aims to help men improve their seduction skills by seeking answers from female dating experts and pickup artists in mass group interviews. The insights and data from the interviews are then measured to create “metrics” infographics that teach men how to attract, seduce and pick up women.

Pickup Metrics plan to conduct these interviews every month to get female and male expert answers to important dating questions.

In the first of these monthly interviews 21 female dating experts were asked what they thought were the 3 biggest attraction killers men are guilty of making in a scenario where a woman meets a man in a bar. The experts were also asked to suggest ways men can build attraction in such an interaction to have more chance of success.

The results of the interview identified 8 major attraction killers ranked in order of most votes:

1. Not holding eye contact / poor attention span
2. Too much sexual intent
3. Bragging and talking too much (tied in 3rd place)
4. Risky topics like exes, sex and politics
5. Being too drunk
6. Bad hygiene
7. Being over eager
8. Not being present – i.e not enjoying the moment

The interview also identified 6 ways men can build attraction ranked in order of most votes:

1. Listen to her
2. Hold eye contact
3. Be present in the moment
4. Compliment her
5. Make a connection
6. Ask questions

Then, in a parallel interview, Pickup Metrics asked 31 pickup artists to share 3 tips for men attempting to pick up girls in 7 different situations, including: on the street, the beach, when a girl is with a friend, in a large group, or is a “10” (i.e. incredibly attractive).

They then pulled votes from the interview to identify the top 3 ways pickup artists suggest men build attraction in an interaction:

1. Be fun and don’t focus on the outcome
2. Hold eye contact
3. Make a connection

As you can see both sexes agreed that holding eye contact is a must for building attraction, as well as making a connection and being present in the moment (i.e. having fun, enjoying yourself and not focusing on the outcome).

The data from the two group interviews was then combined and presented in an infographic to show the female vs male expert advice to be surprisingly similar all-round. The culminating infographic acts as a useful guide for men wanting to learn how to talk to women and build attraction.

PickupMetrics.com is a blog dedicated to measuring expert female and male advice on how to attract, seduce and pickup women.

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