Getting burned once in a relationship can lead to advanced scrutiny of future suitors...
(PRWEB) February 28, 2014
Online divorce service MyDivorcePapers.com (MDP) recognizes that many of their newly divorced clients are now wondering about how to handle the dating scene once they find themselves “going it alone." That's why the company has put together this latest tip sheet on how to date with meaning following the divorce. Here's what they recommend:
One: Be Cautious.
While there is always a risk of being too cautious when dating after the divorce papers, MDP encourages clients to err on the side of it when reentering the dating world. “You must be careful to avoid the same pitfalls that led to the breakup of your marriage,” explained a representative. “The best thing you can do is date people who don’t bring out the worst in you, or who don’t push a lot of the same buttons your ex did. This will mean reevaluating what you look for in a mate and exploring these new options rather than wasting time on the same kind of people.”
Two: Exercise Restraint.
MDP urges divorcees to restrain interactions by not moving too quickly. “You may be a talker, but don’t fall into the trap of divulging too much and moving too quickly. You have to exercise restraint in how you progress the relationship,” the rep warned. “You shouldn’t be looking for a replacement, but an improvement.”
Three: Keep The Past In Check.
Getting burned once in a relationship can lead to advanced scrutiny of future suitors, but ultimately, the past must stay in the past, notes MDP, in order for one to move forward. “There’s a danger of being too hard on new people and comparing them to your ex,” said the rep. “What you can’t forget, is that these are new relationships with new people. They shouldn’t be burdened by the foul-ups of your ex. The trick is in finding that right balance between protecting yourself and being fair to the other person.”
How can one find that balance?
“By getting to know and love yourself,” answered the rep. “You’ve got to remember that after divorce, you’re not the same person you were. It takes some time to reacquaint yourself, so don’t rush into any more serious relationships until you’re comfortable with where you are.”
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