Trends Where Men Refuse Marriage Is Reflected in the Book “Why I Cheat”

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Tim Patten’s controversial book “Why I Cheat: Men, Marriage, and Cheating” provides enough footnoted reasons for sensible men to stay away from the agonizing experiences of marriage supporting new MGTOW trends worldwide. He said, “If men are from Mars, then most women might be from the dark side of Venus!”

“Marriage and monogamy can stop a man’s life and murder his libido.”

Tim’s book “Why I Cheat: Men, Marriage, and Cheating” is a self-help guide for dating and married men who fall prey to abusive demeanor of their women that pushes men to search for another way.

As attributed in the book, his stand on marriage, Tim says, “I began this book almost three years ago because two close friends with vibrant personalities got married only to find their wives abusive. I saw my friend’s wives put their husbands into states of friendless isolation and prisons of misuse.

A year and a half into writing, I discovered inspiration in the growing Herbivore Men and MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) trends on Facebook and YouTube.” Tim said referring to worldwide developments called MGTOW in Canada, United States, United Kingdom, and across Europe. The Herbivore men movement is centered in Japan and fresh sprouts of the MGTOW movement have sprung up in India in 2013.

This book is a collection of 11 real-life couples’ stories with topics that help men break away from untenable situations and physical abuse. “Marriage and monogamy can stop a man’s life and murder his libido as reported by Christopher Ryan, PH.D. in Psychology today,” Tim said. “Few men realize the dilemma in which they find themselves. Each story can help shine a beacon of light into darkness and usher in free will.”

Author Tim Patten speaks up for men everywhere. Whether you’re seeking to liberate yourself from abuse, cope with a jealousy, or just start having fun again, you can find a path that leads to freedom in Why I Cheat. His book unites an emergent movement appearing in social media.

“Why I Cheat: Men, Marriage and Cheating” is now available in hardcover, paperback and eBook formats from Amazon and Barns and Noble.

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Tim Patten
(415) 431-6802 – California time 7 am to 3 pm
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