(PRWEB) May 23, 2014
Online divorce service MyDivorcePapers.com (MDP) works with many couples who would rather exit their relationships on good terms to avoid conflict and expense. The longer a divorce case drags out, the more likely it will do damage to reputation, sanity, and bank accounts. Luckily, there are ways to be proactive in limiting conflict. Here’s what MDP recommends.
Don’t Listen to Friends
MDP acknowledges that there is value in experience, but when it comes to relationship advice — particularly regarding the divorce papers — it’s best not to bring someone else’s experiences into one’s own. “You’ll have friends — often well-meaning ones — who will tell you this and that about the steps you need to take when interacting with your ex,” explained a representative. “Don’t listen to them. All the good intentions in the world won’t supersede the bias and bitterness they’ll be feeling toward divorce. If you’re trying to keep conflict out of it, they’re probably the last people you should be talking to.”
Lack of trust often derails a divorce before it ever has a chance to go the uncontested route, MDP notes. However, “being transparent” can stop those feelings of suspicion before they’ve ever had a chance to start. “Honesty is one of the major factors in a successful relationship, but it also plays a big role in a low-conflict divorce. Just because you’re ending things, that doesn’t mean you have to be disrespectful about it. The more you show that you’re not trying to hide money, and that you’ve been open and honest about the reasons you want a divorce, the more likely it will go off without a hitch.”
The longer that you can communicate with one another while keeping things civil, the better your chances will be of ending the marriage on mature terms, MDP states. “So many of the problems in a relationship arise because one or both parties don’t feel like they’re being heard. If you both commit to successful communication, you’ll be shocked at how much easier divorce can be.”
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