the loss of one spouse to a divorce doesn’t mean the loss of the ability to love altogether.
(PRWEB) October 20, 2014
Online divorce service MyDivorcePapers.com (MDP) understands the emptiness that many spouses feel when they’ve said goodbye to their marriages. That’s what has led the company to put together a new tip sheet focusing on the healing part of the process. Here’s what they recommend.
Tip One: Sever Emotional Ties To The Marriage.
After the divorce papers are final, many spouses have a hard time letting go of old wedding photos or mementos, but that can be a major mistake, the company notes. “Once the divorce is official, those photos are more chains that keep the recently divorced stuck to a dead marriage than they are fond memories,” a representative explained. “It’s far better to box up the photos and get rid of them — either by fire or by giving them to the children.”
Tip Two: Schedule Something That Encourages Quality Alone Time.
MDP urges clients to not let loneliness rule their downtime. “Instead of getting wrapped up in ‘not having anyone,’ make alone time some-thing to look forward to by planning a hike, watching a favorite or anticipated movie or TV show, or reading a book. Do the things you actually enjoy and keep the mind occupied,” the rep said.
Tip Three: Remember That Finding Love Again is Not a Necessity.
MDP assures their clients that there are “other fish in the sea” and that the loss of one spouse to a divorce doesn’t mean the loss of the ability to love altogether. “There will come a time when you’re comfortable enough in your skin to get back out there. When you do, you’ll find something better than what you had with the right attitude.”
Tip Four: Don’t Force It.
In the same way that many believe love is dead after the divorce forms are final, others feel like they have to replace their spouse as soon as possible, MDP observes. “Big mistake. While you don’t want to give up, you don’t want to set yourself up for another quick relationship fail either,” the rep advised. “It’s best to find happiness in yourself before looking for it in someone else.”
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