Should your interracial dating be kept private or public?
Los Angeles California (PRWEB) October 17, 2014 -- People’s view on interracial dating / relationship
The world is changing for better, but still one can witness the animosity towards interracial dating, be it in a public place or within the community. One reason that can be assumed is that these haters have not seen any of their own family members dating outside their race or knowingly they refuse to acknowledge the fact that interracial dating is becoming the order of the day. When you personally talk to them, you will be gasped to know that still there are people who base their arguments based on religion, race, skin color or ethnicity.
At times, peer pressure or convinced values forced on by the members of the family and people tend to be judgmental in their actions. When a person becomes aware of all these matters, whether a black woman dating a white man or a white woman dating a black man, they may think it fit to keep the interracial relationship under wrap, fearing criticism by others. By keeping the interracial relationship a private affair, it will lead to uncalled problems on a later date.
Keep your relationship public
Your keeping of your Interracial dating as a secret, when known to your parents, may make them feel frustrated. You are aware that your parents love you, but assuming that they may not approve the dating, you should not hide the dating from your parents. In their view, it could amount to morally cheating them, despite the best care they shower on you. When you are apprehensive of their views, as an Inter race couple, you have to strategize and think of a move by which the dating would end up in marriage. There is nothing wrong in discussing in detail about the repercussions of such dating that could be caused by making your dating public.
If both of you feel that parents may not approve the dating, you have to speak to them over and over reasoning out the good about your Interracial dating, and how much you are committed to carry on with the dating. After all, parents are interested in the welfare of their children, and even if they initially are not inclined towards your dating, by being frank and open with them, there is every possibility that they approve of your dating. In addition, your interracial relationship need not be a secret with the outside world fearing of the comments, as after a few days the comments would vanish. So, once you are convinced about your interracial relationship, be bold and let the world know of your intentions of loving and marrying a person of a different race
Elena, InterracialMatch.com, http://www.InterracialMatch.com, +1 (416) 628-1072, [email protected]
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