It is the parent’s duty to understand and accept this range of emotions and feelings and to allow them to express what is brewing inside them.
London, UK (PRWEB) February 25, 2015
Whether they are being bullied or becoming a bully, or in some cases where being bullied leads them to become a bully, these type of incidents create a very traumatic experience for a child. Regardless of their way of dealing with the situation, this type of incident can be the precursor for several child behavior problems, explained a NoBullying article featured today.
These behaviors can disrupt the family and literally halt a child’s learning process. Until the reason behind the behaviors is found and dealt with, the child is sometimes trapped within a set of circumstances that leads to increased confusion and even more potentially harmful behaviors.
Some of these potentially dangerous behaviors can include aggressive outbursts that result in harming themselves or others, temper tantrums that last longer than a few minutes, impulsive behavior, being withdrawn and depressed or being extremely hyperactive.
Parents of bullied children and parents of bullies can sometimes discover signs of the children evolving into pathological liars or habitual liars either to escape the severity of their feelings or to steer away from potential punishment for their bullying behavior.
While being bullied or turning into a bully can both be very tough experiences for the child or the parent, it is essential for parents to instill the values of self love, self acceptance and self esteem in their children on a daily basis and to let them know that home is a safe place and a secure outlet for all their bottled up feelings, NoBullying advises.
Also, some children may tend to be less social and more introverted in order to escape being bullied; parents and teacher need to educate younger people on the importance of becoming more social and standing up for themselves when in a bullying situation. Some teens may project their feelings of anger in the form of rebelling and refusing any advice from their parents; the adults in the equation need to understand it is acceptable within boundaries and that their role as parents is to allow teens to let out their feelings.
Ciaran Connolly, Co Founder of NoBullying says, “We at NoBullying understand the ramifications of bullying and being bullied on a child’s psyche. It is the parent’s duty to understand and accept this range of emotions and feelings and to allow them to express what is brewing inside them.”
He added that parents and teachers should make a point to educate the younger generations about the sad outcome of neglecting one’s safety online and offline. According to Connolly, it is quite imperative to press for more firm laws condemning all acts of bullying and harassment.
He also adds that parents and children should always be entitled to more communication with school administrators and guidance councilors in order to put a stop to bullying and hazing practices happening inside school on daily basis. Other children in school should also be made aware about the bystander concept and how they should intervene and step up when a bullying incident takes place.
NoBullying.com features many pages dedicated to parents, teens, teachers, health professionals as well as posts related to cyber safety and the latest news about law making concerning curbing Bullying worldwide, including helpline resources, as well as inspirational Bullying Poems and famous Bullying Quotes.
The website regularly updates its bullying statistics and cyber bullying statistics as it is essential to understand how widespread the bullying epidemic is. It also regularly runs cyber bullying surveys and questionnaires to get recent updated statistics on everything related to cyberbullying.
He also added that anyone suffering from bullying in any form or way can always find advice and help on the NoBullying website wherever they are or whatever they are going through.