From Helpful Media: "It's a Matter of Life and Death: Growing Up in a Funeral Home and What I Learned Since" - Lawrence J Danks

USA - English

• USA - English

BARRINGTON, N.J., Nov. 8, 2018 /PRNewswire-PRWeb/ -- Noted author of the "Fifty Classics" series,Tom Butler-Bowdon says this on the cover of "It's a Matter of Life and Death: Growing Up in a Funeral Home and What I Learned Since" by Lawrence J. Danks: "Larry's book combines positive psychology, motivation and memoir to provide a powerful reminder to really live while we are alive, regretting nothing. His lively reminiscences of growing up in a funeral home are not morbid, but lie in the tradition of a Zen Buddhist meditation on death: facing the great uncertainty and inevitability of death, we are reminded of the opportunity to love, and most of all, to be grateful for everything."

"It's a Matter of Life and Death" is intended to help anyone who is

• seeking happiness
• curious about life in a funeral home
• facing a serious illness or knows someone else who is grieving and working their way back toward recovery
• a health care provider, counselor, or practitioner in the funeral industry trying to help others cope with illness or loss

Samples from over eighty topics include:

Part I: Seeking Happiness -~ Finding Happiness: It's about finding true gratification,not hedonism or smiley faces.

• Death Teaches Us to Value Life Even More
• Take the Long View: Plan to Live to Be One Hundred
• It's Never Too Late To Make a Difference in Your Life and in Those of Others
• Get Better Sleep: It Can Make a Big Difference
• Advice from Courageous Survivors and Physicians For Those Facing a Terminal Illness
• Your Thinking Probably Needs Some Improvement
• Mid-Life Crisis is Not a Crisis

Part II - Growing Up in a Funeral Home

• My Father, the Coroner
• My Sister, the Embalmer
• My Parent's Faith
• The Importance of Humility
• The Medical Examiner's Office and Autopsies
• The Critical Importance of Having a Will
• Do Funeral Directors Charge Too Much?
• Life in the Funeral Home
• The Condition of the Body
• Cosmetic and Presentation Skills

Part III - The Takeaway from Seven Decades

• Drug Abuse
• Giving the Ego a Rest
• Hospice Care - It Should Often Start Sooner
• Finding What to Say at Viewings and Funerals
• Eulogies Can Be Excellent Teachers
• After Things Are Over, It Can Get Awfully Lonely
• Advice from a Grief Counselor on Handling Grief and Loss and Moving Ahead
• Thinking We Understand Death
• People Who Die Before Their Time
• Honoring Those Who Died, but Honoring Yourself Too
• Life after the Death of a Partner

Danks says, "No one clamors to read about death and funerals,but people have a curiosity about what happens in funeral homes – even though they don't necessarily want to live in one. A frequent question I got as a boy was, 'How can you live there?' It was easy. My sister and I never knew anything different than living over one. It was a blessing though. It taught us about life and about what truly matters – finding happiness and peace."

SOURCE Helpful Media