Preventing Infidelity: Fantasizing About Your Partner May be the Key

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Ella Paradis surveyed 1,346 adults and asked a variety of questions, such as “What is your top sexual desire?” “Have you ever cheated on a partner?” and “Do you prefer protected or unprotected sex?”

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If respondents were in fact telling the truth, then that means 70.2% of the population has remained faithful in their relationships – which would certainly be a breath of fresh air!

Ella Paradis, leading online retailer of sexual health & wellness products, explored the top sexual desires & habits of its customers. The study included participants that identified as single or in a relationship. 1,346 users were surveyed and asked a variety of questions, such as “what is your top sexual desire?”, “have you ever cheated on a partner?”, and “do you prefer protected or unprotected sex?”

“By asking these types of questions it provides us insight into how we can better serve our customers. Furthermore, by sharing this information with the public it helps others feel less insecure about their desires and fetishes, as most people will realize they may not be so different from everyone else,” explained CEO of Ella Paradis, Tino Dietrich.

From this survey, it was revealed the top sexual desire of adults is a threesome, with the majority (28%) picking this option. Second was sex in public with 18.2% of users picking this option. The least chosen sexual desire? Sex with a boss or superior – only 2.6% of users chose this option despite a plethora of boss/secretary pornographic videos distributed across the web.

With the increase in dating apps and social media platforms it feels like more and more partners are cheating on their significant others. However, according to this survey, when asked the question “have you ever cheated on a partner?” only 29.8% of users admitted that yes, they had cheated on a partner. If respondents were in fact telling the truth, then that means 70.2% of the population has remained faithful in their relationships – which would certainly be a breath of fresh air!

The next question asked if the user was single or in a relationship. If they answered single, a logic jump occurred to have them skip the next set of questions. 82.6% responded they were in a relationship and were directed to the next set of questions.

According to this study, of the 82.6% of respondents in a relationship, 50.3% noted they masturbate once a week and 26.2% noted they masturbate every day. Additionally, when those in a relationship were asked who they fantasize about during masturbation, a whopping 50.7% noted they fantasize about their partner – which may correlate with the 70.2% who noted they had never cheated on a partner. 40.8% responded that they watch porn instead of mentally fantasizing, and a naughty 8.1% noted they fantasize about their crush. This then begs the question, does thinking of your partner during masturbation make you less likely to cheat on them?

All users were asked the two final questions in the survey regardless of whether they are in a relationship or not. First was “how often do you have sex?” 59.2% noted once a week, 15.3% noted less than once a month, 12.7% noted every day, and 12.4% noted once a month.

Finally, respondents were asked “do you prefer protected or unprotected sex? And a whopping 66.2% noted unprotected. 17.6% noted no preference, while 16.2% noted “no glove, no love.” According to a CDC report in October 2019, cases of syphilis, Gonorrhea and Chlamydia are on the rise again, which could be related to the large preference of adults preferring unprotected sex.

Founded in 2015, Ella Paradis is on a mission to bring everyone pleasure with premium products and quality service. They hope to empower adults by providing optimal solutions, resources and content to improve their quality of life through informed decisions on sexual health and wellness. They are working to provide an environment where everyone feels comfortable embracing their sexuality without feeling shamed or degraded. They are committed to making the experience of pleasure affordable and accessible for everyone, while simultaneously breaking stigmas surrounding sexuality.

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